
When friends come to visit, their comments about what they experience encourages you to look again at what you thought was normal and every day and look at it with a slightly (or even a radically) different perspective.
What I have discovered this time around, is that friends do not actually have to be present in the flesh, their mere imminence is sufficient to cause a rethink.
For example, we have mysterious rain damage, or water damage. One corner of the living room ceiling shows signs of something watery going on. We are puzzled because this corner is part of the wall separating us from the neighbours and the room above is a repository (I daren’t grace it with the term library as the chaos of volumes precludes that designation) for some of my books. There is no water source, and no signs of broken pipes or similar. And it does look unsightly. During the furious storms of last week the water (from whatever source) was sufficient to form long drips down towards the floor. Something will have to be done. And the impetus is made more urgent by the fact that visitors will be coming to the house for some time in the very near future.
But recognition of something needing to be done does not necessarily link towards doing something. It is far easier to rationalize indolence and think those comforting thoughts that caution too hasty repainting because the damage will merely be repeated and one may as well wait to see just how extensive the damage is before tackling its amelioration.
And anyway, the smell of fresh paint will be all too telling for the discerning visitor,
and will only cause them to wonder just what has been done to cover up something that did not look right. Not the most convincing reason to do nothing, but its one that is working for me at the moment!
I much prefer to wonder what visitors will note this time around. Things change. The beach is not the same now that the chiringuitos have gone; storms reform the profile of the sands; the vegetation barrier (which is protected) between the end of the beach and the paseo is growing and dying and blooming, so each visit is different.
We (the City Hall) is attempting to make Castelldefels a city of sculpture as well as a city of gastronomy, and so we have a few more installations by Lorenzo Quinn to go with the bits and pieces that we had previously. The sculpture nearest to us is not to everyone’s taste and it will be interesting to hear our visitors’ reactions.
And we are going to the opera to see Aida. For me this will be a second viewing. I frankly do not expect my view of the production to change, but any chance to hear the music is to be welcomed!
I look around at our roads and the normal structures of living by which we are surrounded and I am made more sensitive by the fact that they will be observed by fresh eyes, and that rubs off on me too as I look at wonder at what they will notice.
I have just reread this piece of writing and wonder if it actually says anything. But, as perhaps another example of the lassitude that grips me from time to time, I do not intend to edit it. I rely on the fact that at some point in the future I will come across it and wonder, momentarily, what the hell I was thinking about and then move on!


